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Todos os dias, vemos pessoas conformadas com seus relacionamentos mornos e elas estão insatisfeitas com os seus resultados. Seja por ciúme excessivo, brigas por motivos fúteis e que não levam a nada a não ser insatisfação, depressão e afastamento.Algumas pessoas sonham com a perfeição do outro e não se permitem evoluir para que possam oferecer as mesmas condições e equilíbrio para a relação.O livro Coaching Para Solteiros nasceu das percepções obtidas através da observação da humanidade nesta busca de um alimento tão básico que é o amor.Me permito ir além dos meros conselhos e partir para a reflexão sobre cada ser em si e do que é capaz de querer e junto com o leitor cocriarmos algo dentro do seu contexto, da sua realidade.Usando as ferramentas de coaching, o leitor vai usar sua história pessoal como pano de fundo para encontrar sua melhor versão e como subproduto de tudo isso, um relacionamento melhor, mais acertivo.Baseado no conceito de coaching, a metodologia é o fio condutor para que você possa redefinir conceitos e quebrar crenças, a todo instante as provocações vem, não como verdades, mas como opções de escolha e quanto mais escolhas, maior e melhor a chance de se obter o que se deseja.Convido você a conhecer este processo maravilhoso de descoberta e a obter resultados mágicos sem magia.Cristiano Acosta - Coach e fundador da Dados & Ideias, empresa especializada em desenvolvimento humano.Compre o livro em http://migre.me/7s9oy

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gbx`s `p {`deg fnl`ígkn g `vfr`x`r `v{` bjxrn wpgdkn `d{`dkj g ljdegyrjl`jrg r`bgíæn" fnl g ljdeg læ`$ Dn jdìfjn k`v{g r`bgíæn" `p fenrgxg` `bg l` kgxg b`j{`$ Fnl g lg{prjkgk`" dn gpm` knv l`pv 7? l`v`v k`

jkgk`" gyr`dkj g fndhjgr d`vvg y`vvng ` g l` `uyr`vvgr k` np{rgv lgd`jrgv ygrgno{`r n wp` `p wp`rjg$ G{`díæn" gbjl`d{n" yr`v`d{`v hnrgl gbmpdv knv l`pv

noc`{jxnv d`v{`v yrjl`jrnv gdnv ` g fndvfjãdfjg k` wp` vnsjden kjhjfjbl`d{`vnor`xjx`rjg$

 [Fnl n {`lyn y`rf`oj wp` gbêl k`bg %ljdeg læ`* egxjg l`p ygj" k`ynjv x`jnjrlæn" ygr`d{`v" gljmnv" ygjuð`v" glnr`v ` l` xj v`l fnd{rnb` kg wpgd{jkgk` k`y`vvngv é ljdeg xnb{g ` fnln bjkgr fnl fgkg plg k`bgv$

K`lnrnp lpj{n {`lyn ygrg `p `d{`dk`r n yrjdfìyjn k`v{gv r`bgíð`v ` fnlnl`benrgr fgkg plg k`bgv ` `d{`dkg wp` jvvn dæn ` hçfjb np kjhìfjb" d`l l`vln

ynvvn ghjrlgr wp` `v{` gyr`dkjsgkn ê rçyjkn np k`xgmgr" lgv ynvvn ghjrlgr wp`fgkg r`bgíæn {`l pl jd{`r`vv`$

D`v{` bjxrn hgbgr`j kgv r`bgíð`v fnl jd{`r`vv` `l {`dvæn v`upgb" v`cgl `bgv fnlenl`dv np lpbe`r`v" eê{`rn np enlnvv`upgjv" jv{n ê" dglnrnv" dnjxgknv"fgvgl`d{nv" `{f$$$

N hg{n ê wp` nv v`r`v eplgdnv `l vpg mrgdk` lgjnrjg wp`r`l ong fnlygdejg `dæn fndxjx`l o`l fnl g vnbjkæn$ [rg{gr`lnv kjvvn g ygr{jr k` gmnrg$

_`vjv{j lpj{n g{ê fnl`ígr g `vfr`x`r `v{` bjxrn" ynrwp` l` y`rmpd{gxg n wp`ynk`rjg r`mjv{rgr" wp` gpujbjgvv` n b`j{nr g gf`r{gr dg `vfnbeg" g k`hjdjr plg`v{rg{êmjg wp` ypk`vv` mgrgd{jr pl y`rìnkn bndmn ` yrgs`rnvn gn bgkn kg y`vvng`vfnbejkg" vjl ynk`lnv `vfnbe`r ` `vfnbe`r o`l$

Ogvjfgl`d{` g xjkg ê h`j{g k` `vfnbegv" jdfbpvjx` `vfnbeg dgv ygjuð`v ` glnr`v ``dwpgd{n gv y`vvngv dæn gvvpljr`l g r`vyndvgojbjkgk` ynr jvvn" xæn fnd{jdpgr

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`rrgdkn" bgl`d{gdkn ` n yjnr k` {pkn" gokjfgdkn kn lgjnr ynk`r kn v`replgdn wp` ê n bjxr` groì{rjn$

Dæn ê kjhìfjb npxjr k` gbmpêl wp` vö g{rgj y`vvngv kjh`r`d{`v kn wp` k`v`cgl"wp` dæn fndv`mp` y`rlgd`f`r lpj{n {`lyn gn bgkn k` plg y`vvng" wp` v` v`d{``dmgdgkn np pvgkn$

Lpj{gv r`bgíð`v {`rljdgl y`bn fndhbj{n k` jd{`r`vv`v" hgb{g k` vjd{ndjg `d{r`np{rnv hg{nr`v wp` ynk`l v`r r`vnbxjknv wpgdkn {`lnv fbgrn wp`l vnlnv ` n

wp` wp`r`lnv$ Gbmplgv r`bgíð`v væn fnln gxjð`v v`l ybgdn k` xnn" dn l`jnkn fgljden hjfgl v`l fnlopv{ìx`b ` g wp`kg ê g fndv`wpãdfjg dg{prgb$

Dnvvn noc`{jxn ê k`hjdjr n y`rhjb k`v`cgkn ` `v{rg{êmjgv ygrg `dfnd{rç,bn ` fnlnmgden v`fpdkçrjn %v`rç>*" g gp{ny`rf`yíæn" {rgdvhnrlgíæn y`vvngb `k`v`dxnbxjl`d{n k` egojbjkgk`v fnln g y`rkg kg {jljk`s" ynr `u`lybn$

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N wp` dæn b`rç gwpj

N wp` dæn b`rç gwpj

rgdk`v y`dvgknr`v dnrlgbl`d{` {`l g `uy`rjãdfjg fnln vpg hj`bfndv`be`jrg$ Gbêl k` ynê{jfg" g hrgv` ê lpj{n x`rkgk`jrg$ X`lnv dnvhjbl`v wp` r`{rg{gl lnl`d{nv ejv{örjfnv" gdfjð`v kgdkn fndv`benv

ogv`gknv `l vpgv xjxãdfjgv" `d{`dkjl`d{nv$ N ejv{örjfn wp` `v{gv y`vvngv%gdfjð`v* {jdegl" gpujbjgxg dgv k`fjvð`v$ Gcpkgxg g k`fjkjr vnor` `v{rg{êmjgv k`

og{gbegv np l`vln dn kjg g kjg kgv y`vvngv$

M, Ge' V` `p vnpo`vv` n wp` v`j enc` fnl l`pv ?9 gdnv'

Dn `d{gd{n" l`vln `p {`dkn `uy`rjãdfjgv rjfgv `l gyr`dkjsgkn" fgkg v`r êódjfn$ Vpg fpb{prg ` gloj`d{` {nrdgrjgl l`pv fndv`benv lpj{n vpy`rhjfjgjv ` g{êjd`hjfgs`v `l lpj{nv fgvnv$

N {ì{pbn fngfejdm dæn ê ynr gfgvn" fngfejdm ê pl yrnf`vvn ygrg g{jdmjr pl

noc`{jxn k` lgd`jrg gf`b`rgkg$ N fngfejdm {projdg g no{`díæn knv r`vpb{gknvv`l kgr r`vynv{gv" gy`dgv hgs`dkn y`rmpd{gv ynk`rnvgv ` jvvn {rgs r`vpb{gknvlçmjfnv" v`l lgmjg$

 G lgmjg kn yrnf`vvn" v` ê wp` `ujv{`" ê g{rgxêv kgv y`rmpd{gv no{`r g vpg l`benr x`rvæn" k`d{rn kn v`p fnd{`u{n$ G r`hb`uæn vnor` fgkg gvy`f{n dg opvfg knr`bgfjndgl`d{n jk`gb xgj {rgs`dkn lg{prjkgk`" lpkgdíg fnlynr{gl`d{gb `k`v`dxnbx`dkn egojbjkgk`v$

Dæn xnp ygvvgr plg r`f`j{g k` onbn" k` fnln fndv`mpjr pl r`bgfjndgl`d{n

vêrjn np ygwp`rgr" r`f`j{gv k` onbn ynk`l hgbegr y`bn l`vln ln{jxn wp` nvfndv`benv ` dæn ê l`p noc`{jxn kgr fndvpb{nrjg vnor` r`bgfjndgl`d{nv$

Dæn x`cg `v{` bjxrn fnln plg gynv{jbg" ynr wp` dæn ê pl fprvn$ Dæn xnp`dvjdgr `dvjdgl`d{nv `l fngfejdm" lgv eç fnfrjgíæn$ @l xçrjnv lnl`d{nv

 xnfã ynk`rç b`r gbmn wp` hgíg lpj{n v`d{jkn ` {nl` jvvn fnln vnbpíæn" dæn ynrwp` ê pl `dvjdgl`d{n" lgv ynr wp` ê plg nyíæn ` {gbx`s `bg dæn `ujv{jvv` v`l

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`v{g b`j{prg$

  Gbmplgv h`rjkgv ynk`l v` h`fegr ` gbmpdv `d{`dkjl`d{nv vprmjræn ` xnfãynk`rç v` y`rmpd{gr v` jvvn ê {`rgyjg$ [gloêl dæn ê {`rgyjg" fngfejdm {rgogbegdn yr`v`d{` fnl hnfn dn hp{prn$ V` xnfã vnhr`p {rgplgv ` jvvn g{rgygbeg v`pvr`bgfjndgl`d{nv" yrnfpr` pl {`rgy`p{g$

  G yr`nfpygíæn kn fngfe" ê wp` v`p fngfe`` %fbj`d{`* no{`deg r`vpb{gknvgf`b`rgknv" n wp` g gdçbjv` dæn v` fnlyrnl`{`$

Fndxjkn xnfã g v`mpjr b`dkn ` cpd{nv r`hb`{jrlnv vnor` n wp` k`p `rrgkn g{êgmnrg" `d{`dk`r n wp` xnfã ynk` hgs`r kjh`r`d{` ygrg wp` n r`vpb{gkn v`cgkjh`r`d{`$ Wpgdkn xnfã lpkg g gíæn" xnfã lpkg n r`vpb{gkn$

D`v{g xjgm`l `d{r` gv yçmjdgv k`v{` bjxrn" n k`vghjn ê ygr{jr kgv fr`dígv g{pgjvygrg pl lnl`d{n gndk` xnfã y`rf`og wp` ynk` ` l`r`f` lgjv kn wp` cç {`x`pl kjg$

K`vghjn xnfã g frjgr vpg l`benr x`rvæn$ Xnfã gf`j{g `v{` k`vghjn>

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 Gp{nkjgmdöv{jfn

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{`dkn y`vvngv k` kjx`rvgv jkgk`v" hgv`v kjh`r`d{`v kg xjkg ` n {`lgr`bgfjndgl`d{n glnrnvn ê hr`wp`d{`$ K` plg hnrlg np k` np{rgvprm` dg fndx`rvg gv jdvg{jvhgíð`v$ G

Eç ynpfn {`lyn g{`dkj plg cnx`l k` ?8 gdnv$ @rg vpg yrjl`jrg v`vvæn ` `bg

`v{gxg fndhpvg vnor` n wp` hgrjg o`l g `bg" `v{gxg y`rkjkg$ Ygrg xnfã {`r plgjk`jg" `bg `v{gxg {rg{gdkn vpg k`yr`vvæn" v` v`d{jdkn y`rkjkg$

Fnln n fngfejdm gpujbjg dg hnrlpbgíæn k` noc`{jxnv" npxj vpg ejv{örjg k` xjkg `hjwp`j `dfgd{gkn fnl v`p yn{`dfjgb$ Lgrjg %dnl` hjf{ìfjn* {jdeg knjv fprvnvvpy`rjnr`v fnlyb`{nv ` v`p vnden yrnhjvvjndgb `rg {`r pl `vfrj{örjn$

@d{`dkg wp` Lgrjg k`y`dkjg gjdkg kn ygj" enl`l gpv{`rn wp` fnorgxg k`bgr`vpb{gknv ` `bg {rgogbegdkn k` x`dk`knrg k` bncg v` v`d{jg lgb$ Dæn ygrgxg dn

`lyr`mn y`bnv lgjv xgrjgknv ln{jxnv" dnrlgbl`d{` y b̀g yr`vvæn wp` n x`dk`knr ygvvg$

Lgrjg lnrg vnsjdeg" nv ygjv ` jrlænv lnrgl `l np{rg fjkgk` wp` `bg dænk`v`cgxg r`{nrdgr" wp`rjg hjfgr gndk` `v{ç y`bgv nynr{pdjkgk`v yrnhjvvjndgjv ` v`php{prn `vfrj{örjn wp` lnd{grjg `l ygrf`rjg fnl pl yrnhjvvjndgb k` plg çr`gghjl$

K`ynjv k` k`{gbegr n yrnf`vvn k` k`yr`vvæn" m`rgkg y`bg k`y`dkãdfjg hjdgdf`jrg"fnorgdígv kn ygj ` hgb{g k` gyrnx`j{gl`d{n yrnhjvvjndgb" lgdjh`v{np vpg vnbjkæn$

Wp` ygvvgrjg y`bn yrnf`vvn k` fprg l`benr v` {jx`vv` pl dglnrgkn$ Bjdkg" gb{g"lnr`dg" ?8 gdnv ` cglgjv {`x` pl dglnrn vêrjn$

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V` xnfã wp`r hgbgr l`benr `l yóobjfn" ynk` hgs`r pl fprvn" v` `vy`fjgbjsgr djvvn"{r`jdgr `v{g egojbjkgk`" ynr `u`lybn$

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